It is good etiquette to write a thank you note to those that attended your bridal shower or gave a gift for your shower.
- Be sure to send out a written thank you, even if you've already thanked them personally.
- Be sure to send out a thank you, even if they only attended but didn't give you a gift.
- Unless you have illegible writing, handwrite your notes and cards; it'll give it a much more personal touch than printed words.
- Send out your thank yous within a couple weeks; if you fall behind, be sure to apologize for the lateness.
- If they gave you a gift, be specific and mention the gift in your note.
(Thank you for the mixer; I plan on using it to bake lots of cookies for my future husband!)
- If you receive money or gift cards as a gift, don't mention the specific amount, instead mention what you'll spend the money on.
(Thank you for your generous gift, we'll be putting it towards new furniture for our new home.)
General Bridal Shower Thank You Messages (Gift and Attendance)
Thank you for coming to my bridal shower and your kind gift; I look forward to seeing you again at the wedding.
I had such a great time at my bridal shower with you, it wouldn't have been the same without you. I'd also like to thank you for your wonderful and generous gift.
Thank you for attending my bridal shower and for your truly generous gift.
Thank you so much for your generous gift. It was great seeing you again, I hope you had much fun as I did at the bridal shower.
Your presence at my bridal shower was truly the highlight of the day. Thank you so much for coming and for your most generous gift.
It was really lovely seeing you at my bridal shower. I had so much a great time with you there. It was so thoughtful of you to give a gift as well. Thank you so much, I really appreciate you and our years of friendship.
Thank you for the love and support you've shown me and for your generous gift. My bridal shower wouldn't have been the same without you there.
Thank You for Attending Bridal Shower
Thank you so much for coming to my shower, it meant so much you were able to make time to spend with me.
It was really great catching up with you at my bridal shower. Thanks so much for coming.
I really appreciate you taking the time to join me at my special celebration.
It meant so much to me that you were able to come and celebrate with me.
Thank you for taking the time to come to my shower. I was so glad that you were able to make it.
It was great spending time with you at my bridal shower, it was lovely seeing you there and catching up on old times.
Thank You for Bridal Shower Gift
Your gift was so very thoughtful; my words are insufficient to describe my gratitude.
I'm sorry you couldn’t make it to my shower, but I am so thankful for your kind gift.
Thank you so much for your thoughtful gift. I wish you were able to make it to celebrate with me but look forward to seeing you at the wedding.
I’m so blessed to have you as my friend, and I'm blessed by the gift you sent me. Thank you so much.
I'm so grateful for your lovely gift. Wish you could have been able to attend my bridal shower; you were missed.
Thank You to Host
You did such an amazing job hosting and planning my shower. It was such a beautiful event and I'll never forget it. Thank you so much, you have my endless gratitude.
Thanks so much for organizing my bridal shower. Everyone loved it and had a great time. I truly appreciate all of the time that you spent on this for me.
Thank you, thank you, thank you! You did such an awesome job on planning out my bridal shower, I don't know of anyone who could've done a better job.
The bridal shower was perfect, I can't think of anyway it could have been planned better. I’m still smiling from all the fun I had at the shower. Thank you for all the hours of planning, it made me feel really special.